Mind setting

Assalamualaikum.

Hari ni minggu kelima berada di London untuk perjalan PhD. Hmm..not so bad. I have learnt a lot.

As the saying goes "orang yang berjaya adalah orang yang berjaya mengenal pasti kelemahannya dan mengambil langkah untuk memperbaikinya".

Tapi, seringkali kita lari, malu dan denial dgn kelemahan sendiri. Boleh jadi juga kita trauma dgn kelemahan diri mungkin kerana ada kisah di sebaliknya, mungkin kita pernah mengalami situasi yang sangat memalukan disebabkan oleh kelemahan diri. Namun, its ok, don't worry, at least kita tahu apa kelemahan kita. Kita perlu terima dengan lebih positif dan mulakan langkah memperbaikinya perlahan-perlahan. Tidak di nafikan, kita akan seringkali melarikan diri dari melakukan sesuatu yang di luar 'comfort zone' atau sesuatu yang kita tahu 'ok, ni lah aku paling xboleh buat'. But, don't, face it, slowly you will get over the fear and you will be more open to all your weaknesses.

The first step to overcome your weakness is always to admit it. Then, have courage to face it and improve it slowly. It will be hard at the beginning, but keep going, you will be more happy with your life. Nothing to worry. People always feel insecure because of their weaknessess, feel scared to do something that they know they have less kill in that particular thing. But, that is learning process. You will be better as you keep your mind open and continue learning and experience it, instead of backing off without even try, trying to avoid it with hundreds of excuses. Sebab actually, you boleh buat, you je kadang2 ego, malu dan takut kalau wat salah orang tengok. Hehehe..

You will enjoy your life better once you stop worrying about things. Too much worrying will hide all opportunities in front of you. You will not be able to see properly, think properly, and most importantly live freely and happily and do the things you like. Doing things that makes you happy is what makes you a better person and create a better life.

Ok, I am hungry now, time to eat dinner..

Hudson Close

28 Sept 2016
7.42 pm